Things have been quiet lately here. Shit happens, I work, I have some semblance of a thing called a life, I fall asleep by 8pm etc. Anyways, I have some new messages that have come my way to share but I need to take care of some business first....
I had received a comment a little while back accusing me of slut shaming. A majority of the people who have read this site come from the lady blog world and are quite familiar with that term. I'm not perfect but I'm not a slut shamer. I am an all around equal opportunity shamer though. When I point out things like scantily clad bodies or girls shoving bananas down their throat its not to shame. Its annoying when I read profiles that say "I'm looking for a gentleman, responsible, loyal guy blah blah blah" (you get the gist) then see these pictures because reality is that you are more than likely not going to get that if you are doing these so called "slut" things. Really, all you will get are the creepers. Its a fact. I would love it if we lived in a perfect world where a lady can be as "slutty" as she wants and still get the good non creepy guy who will treat her right. But we don't. Just know that at this point in our society, what you put out there is what you will get back. If you really want to find someone of substance then scale back on the sexy (you don't have to be a prude) and save it for when you get that first message at least. Now if you want to find guys just to mess around with and not establish anything serious then by all means be up front about it. Maybe one day things will change but until then.......
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