I'm fully accepting of my jerk status for this website and my responses to some of the messages I receive. Some of these people really are trying and I recognize that its hard to send a message to a complete stranger knowing that you are being fully judged on that message and if you are a lucky a look at your profile. Hell, when I saw boyfriend on OKC I didn't even message him. I copped out and sent a wink. Lucky enough for me he was interested and the rest is history.
So I go through these cycles where I feel like I should just be nicer then I get a message like this...
I've said it before- I'm not here to judge other people's sexual preferences. I'm all for a good hookup. Been there done that. I just always get a creepy feeling when hearing about people trying to find that online. You just really do not know what you are getting yourself into; more so than that person at the bar. So being propositioned like this online cause several reactions:
1. fake vomiting noises
2. eye roll
3. 'Are you serious' shout out
4. Overall, creeped out sensation
5. And this response...
I did look at his profile and really for his favorite books/movie/music section was that response. If you can't even feign a response for something that EVERYBODY has a favorite of then you really are no interest to me. Plus it just further drives the point that he is only on a dating site to look for hook ups.


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